{"id":13973,"date":"2016-05-01T00:46:02","date_gmt":"2016-05-01T10:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=13973"},"modified":"2016-06-03T17:24:20","modified_gmt":"2016-06-04T03:24:20","slug":"my-latest-japan-times-column-jbc-97-enjoy-your-life-in-japan-for-the-moments-may-2-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=13973","title":{"rendered":"My latest Japan Times column JBC 97: “Enjoy your life in Japan, for the moments” (May 2, 2016)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Hi Blog. \u00a0Here’s my latest column, which is a departure from my usual\u00a0writing. \u00a0Enjoy. \u00a0Dr. ARUDOU, Debito<\/p>\n

JUST BE CAUSE<\/strong>
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ISSUES | JUST BE CAUSE<\/strong>
\n Enjoy your life in Japan, for the moments<\/strong>
\n BY DEBITO ARUDOU, THE JAPAN TIMES, MAY 1, 2016<\/strong>
\nhttp:\/\/www.japantimes.co.jp\/community\/2016\/05\/01\/issues\/enjoy-life-japan-moments\/<\/a><\/p>\n

After more than 30 years of studying Japan, I\u2019ve learned to appreciate one thing people here do well: living in the moment.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

By that I mean there seems to be a common understanding that moments are temporary and bounded \u2014 that the feelings one has now may never happen again, so they should be enjoyed to the fullest right here, right now, without regard to the future.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I can think of several examples. Consider the stereotypical honeymooning couple in Hawaii. They famously capture every moment in photographs \u2014 from humdrum hotel rooms to food on the plate. They even camcord as much as they can to miss as few moments as possible.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Why? Safekeeping. For who knows when said couple will ever get back to Hawaii (or, for that matter, be allowed to have an extended vacation anywhere, including Japan)? Soon they\u2019ll have kids, demanding jobs, meticulous budgets, and busywork until retirement. No chance in the foreseeable future to enjoy moments like these.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

So they frame a beachside photo atop the TV, preserve a keepsake in a drawer, store a dress or aloha shirt far too colorful to ever wear in public \u2014 anything to take them back to that precious time and place in their mind\u2019s eye. (Emperor Hirohito reputedly treasured his Paris Metro ticket as a lifetime memento, and was buried with his Disneyland souvenir Mickey Mouse watch.)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Another example: extramarital love affairs. Sleeping around is practically a national sport in Japan (hence the elaborate love hotel industry), and for a good reason: the wonderful moments lovers can surreptitiously capture. It\u2019s a vacation from real life. For chances are their tryst is temporary; it fills a void. But how pleasant their time is in their secret world! […]<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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JBC 97: After more than 30 years of studying Japan, I\u2019ve learned to appreciate one thing people here do well: living in the moment.<\/p>\n

By that I mean there seems to be a common understanding that moments are temporary and bounded \u2014 that the feelings one has now may never happen again, so they should be enjoyed to the fullest right here, right now, without regard to the future.<\/p>\n

I can think of several examples. Consider the stereotypical honeymooning couple in Hawaii. They famously capture every moment in photographs \u2014 from humdrum hotel rooms to food on the plate. They even camcord as much as they can to miss as few moments as possible.<\/p>\n

Why? Safekeeping. For who knows when said couple will ever get back to Hawaii (or, for that matter, be allowed to have an extended vacation anywhere, including Japan)? Soon they\u2019ll have kids, demanding jobs, meticulous budgets, and busywork until retirement. No chance in the foreseeable future to enjoy moments like these. <\/p>\n

So they frame a beachside photo atop the TV, preserve a keepsake in a drawer, store a dress or aloha shirt far too colorful to ever wear in public \u2014 anything to take them back to that precious time and place in their mind\u2019s eye. (Emperor Hirohito reputedly treasured his Paris Metro ticket as a lifetime memento, and was buried with his Disneyland souvenir Mickey Mouse watch.)<\/p>\n

Another example: extramarital love affairs. Sleeping around is practically a national sport in Japan (hence the elaborate love hotel industry), and for a good reason: the wonderful moments lovers can surreptitiously capture. It\u2019s a vacation from real life. For chances are their tryst is temporary; it fills a void. But how pleasant their time is in their secret world!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,22,44,31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13973","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-academia","category-cultural-issue","category-discussions","category-tangents"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13973","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13973"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13973\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13973"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13973"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13973"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}