{"id":9099,"date":"2011-06-18T00:20:57","date_gmt":"2011-06-17T15:20:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=9099"},"modified":"2011-06-18T00:23:14","modified_gmt":"2011-06-17T15:23:14","slug":"child-abductions-issue-how-japans-debate-on-defining-domestic-violence-the-loophole-in-enforcing-the-hague-treaty-is-heading-in-the-wrong-direction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=9099","title":{"rendered":"Child Abductions Issue: How Japan’s debate on defining “Domestic Violence”, the loophole in enforcing the Hague Treaty, is heading in the wrong direction"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Hi Blog. \u00a0Here is a report from a Debito.org reader who translates how the debate on Domestic Violence in Japan (being cited as a reason to create loopholes in Japan’s enforcement of the upcoming signatory status with the Hague Treaty on Child Abductions<\/a>) is being stretched to justify just about any negative behavior (including non-tactile acts) as “violent”. \u00a0And note how the checklist of “violent” acts below approaches the issue with the woman as perpetual victim and the man as perpetrator. \u00a0If accepted as the standard definition, imagine just how much further this will weaken the fathers’ position in any Japanese divorce negotiation. \u00a0Yet another example of how clueless Japanese social scientists are when dealing with issues of human rights<\/a>. \u00a0Courtesy of Chris Savoie, used with permission. \u00a0Arudou Debito in Sapporo<\/p>\n

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June 16, 2011<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here is my cut of a translation that is being circulated by an influential NGO in Japan as the standard for recognizing Domestic Violence (“DV”) in Japan. Thanks CJ for finding and posting this!<\/em><\/p>\n

Note that these standards or substantially similar standards will likely be applied under the new Hague implementation law to deny access and\/or return of children to foreign (and Japanese) parents who are victims of parental abduction to and within Japan. Similar standards are already applied in Japanese family courts at present. <\/em><\/p>\n

The original URL is below and this was a rushed translation, so if someone can clean it up or correct it, please do. Please feel free to forward this to folks involved with Congressional approval if HR1940.<\/em><\/p>\n

http:\/\/saya-saya.net\/toujisha\/checklist.html<\/a><\/p>\n

Please note for the avoidance of doubt that I am very much for the protection of both males and females from legitimate partner abuse and certain forms of behavior (like slapping) on this list are SERIOUS infractions, represent CRIMINAL acts and are to be condemned in the STRONGEST possible terms. However, certain of the conduct described below is a given even in otherwise healthy relationships and to include such conduct alongside actual physical violence or serious verbal abuse dilutes the very necessary efforts needed to protect actual abuse victims and for this reason, such ridiculous crap science does more to endanger domestic violence victims than to help them. For these reasons, such a list is highly contemptible.\u00a0Best,\u00a0CJS<\/em><\/p>\n

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CITATION BEGINS<\/strong><\/p>\n

The DV Checklist<\/strong><\/p>\n

“He is kind of scary. Is this even a \u2019DV\u2019?” “\u2019DV\u2019 I mean, I often hear the term, but I do not know specifically what ‘DV’ is!”…<\/em><\/p>\n

Often we hear about DV in daily life. If you do too, try completing the following checklist.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

We have published this checklist by Dr. Numazaki Ichirou. The survey was designed for men and women, but for sexual minorities, please complete the exercise according to one’s role in the relationship.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Checklist for Women<\/strong><\/p>\n

Please check any of these if you have experienced them:<\/strong><\/p>\n

He sulks if I deviate in any way from what he has requested of me.<\/em><\/p>\n

He quickly blames me whenever something goes wrong.<\/em><\/p>\n

When I go out alone, he calls my cell phone regularly.<\/em><\/p>\n

He is reluctant to associate with my friends and parents.<\/em><\/p>\n

He is angry if I come home late.<\/em><\/p>\n

He says I am “stupid” or “incompetent”.<\/em><\/p>\n

He cops an attitude so that I don’t refuse to comply with his whims.<\/em><\/p>\n

I do not want him to be angry so I reluctantly listen to him.<\/em><\/p>\n

I always try to wear clothes that he likes.<\/em><\/p>\n

He has not problem pointing out my shortcomings in front of other people.<\/em><\/p>\n

He ignores me when I want to talk with him.<\/em><\/p>\n

Also complains vocally about my idiosyncrasies.<\/em><\/p>\n

I am relieved when he is not around.<\/em><\/p>\n

If I have a temper tantrum, he responds by hitting walls, or throwing objects.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have been slapped by him.<\/em><\/p>\n

After he hits me, he is quickly kind and gentle to me and apologizes.<\/em><\/p>\n

In order not to offend him I have given up a lot.<\/em><\/p>\n

He insists on sex without taking care of my needs.<\/em><\/p>\n

Source: by Numazaki Ichirou “Why Do Men Choose Violence?” <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Checklist for Men<\/strong><\/p>\n

Please check any of these if you have experienced them:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I have yelled at her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I wish that she would only have eyes for me.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sometimes I don’t answer her when she wants to talk to me.<\/em><\/p>\n

While speaking with her, I have stood up and got close to her.<\/em><\/p>\n

She has thought that I made fun of her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I think a woman should look up to her man.<\/em><\/p>\n

I may have silently stared at her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I am concerned when she is speaking with other men.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have secretly checked her cell phone.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have cheated on her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have told her “Don’t get smart with me.”<\/em><\/p>\n

I may have lifted a hand to her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I am annoyed when she talks back to me.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have cussed at her.<\/em><\/p>\n

I have called her a big mouth.<\/em><\/p>\n

I feel restless if I am not with her all the time.<\/em><\/p>\n

I feel hurt if she pushes back at me.<\/em><\/p>\n

She incurred a debt for me without my permission.<\/em><\/p>\n

Source: Dr. Numazaki Ichirou “Why Do men choose violence?”<\/strong><\/p>\n

According to Professor Numazaki, the producer of this list, a check mark next to even ONE item indicates a DV event. (For women who checked off one item, they have been a victim of DV and, for men, any checks indicate that that man was a perpetrator of DV.)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

One of the items in the men’s list is “I wish that she would only have eyes for me.” One might question “How can ‘wishing’ or “thinking” something amount to violence?” Indeed, “just thinking” does not amount to violence. But if the thought “I think so” represents a strong belief, it is often followed by action. If one thinks “I want her only to have eyes for me” strongly, then the expression of power and domination (violence) is possible.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

According to the results of a survey in 2008 by the Cabinet, “33,2% of married women over the age of 20 have been victims of DV.”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Defining DV: \u00a0http:\/\/saya-saya.net\/dv.html<\/a><\/p>\n

ENDS<\/p>\n

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JAPANESE ORIGINAL:<\/strong><\/p>\n

http:\/\/saya-saya.net\/toujisha\/checklist.html<\/a>
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ENDS<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Here is a report from a Debito.org reader who translates how the debate on Domestic Violence in Japan (being cited as a reason to create loopholes in Japan’s enforcement of the upcoming signatory status with the Hague Treaty on Child Abductions) is being stretched to justify just about any negative behavior (including non-tactile acts) as “violent”. And note how the checklist of “violent” acts below approaches the issue with the woman as perpetual victim and the man as perpetrator. If accepted as the standard definition, imagine just how much further this will weaken the fathers’ position in any Japanese divorce negotiation.<\/p>\n

NGO Sayasaya: Checklist for Women
\nPlease check any of these if you have experienced them:<\/p>\n

He sulks if I deviate in any way from what he has requested of me.
\nHe quickly blames me whenever something goes wrong.
\nWhen I go out alone, he calls my cell phone regularly.
\nHe is reluctant to associate with my friends and parents.
\nHe is angry if I come home late…<\/p>\n

Checklist for Men
\nPlease check any of these if you have experienced them:<\/p>\n

I have yelled at her.
\nI wish that she would only have eyes for me.
\nSometimes I don’t answer her when she wants to talk to me.
\nWhile speaking with her, I have stood up and got close to her.
\nShe has thought that I made fun of her…<\/p>\n

Source: Dr. Numazaki Ichirou “Why Do men choose violence?”<\/p>\n

According to Professor Numazaki, the producer of this list, a check mark next to even ONE item indicates a DV event. (For women who checked off one item, they have been a victim of DV and, for men, any checks indicate that that man was a perpetrator of DV.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[36,49,5,14,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bad-social-science","category-child-abductions","category-human-rights","category-japanese-politics","category-8"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9099\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}