{"id":9366,"date":"2011-09-13T22:44:57","date_gmt":"2011-09-13T13:44:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=9366"},"modified":"2011-10-30T07:40:25","modified_gmt":"2011-10-29T22:40:25","slug":"japan-times-have-your-say-column-offers-reader-feedback-to-my-aug-6-jbc-column-on-the-loneliness-of-the-long-distance-foreigner-how-difficult-it-seems-to-make-long-term-japanese-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/?p=9366","title":{"rendered":"Japan Times HAVE YOUR SAY Column offers reader feedback to my Aug 2 JBC column on &#8220;The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Foreigner&#8221;, how difficult it seems to make long-term Japanese friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_8577\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8577\" style=\"width: 149px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/inappropriatecoverthumb150x226.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8577\" title=\"inappropriatecoverthumb150x226\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/inappropriatecoverthumb150x226.jpg\" alt=\"IN APPROPRIATE, A novel of culture, kidnapping, and revenge in modern Japan, By ARUDOU Debito\" width=\"149\" height=\"226\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8577\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">New novel IN APPROPRIATE by ARUDOU Debito<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/handbook.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1298\" title=\"HANDBOOKsemifinalcover.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/HANDBOOKsemifinalcover.jpg\" alt=\"Handbook for Newcomers, Migrants, and Immigrants to Japan\" width=\"75\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/tshirts.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1701\" title=\"joshirtblack2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/joshirtblack2-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\\&quot; width=\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/japaneseonly.html#japanese\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1700\" title=\"jobookcover\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/jobookcover-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\u300c\u30b8\u30e3\u30d1\u30cb\u30fc\u30ba\u30fb\u30aa\u30f3\u30ea\u30fc\u3000\u5c0f\u6a3d\u5165\u6d74\u62d2\u5426\u554f\u984c\u3068\u4eba\u7a2e\u5dee\u5225\u300d\uff08\u660e\u77f3\u66f8\u5e97\uff09\" width=\"75\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/japaneseonly.html#english\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1699\" title=\"japaneseonlyecover\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/japaneseonlyecover-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"JAPANESE ONLY:  The Otaru Hot Springs Case and Racial Discrimination in Japan\" width=\"75\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cinemabstruso.de\/strawberries\/main.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2735\" title=\"sourstrawberriesavatar\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/03\/sourstrawberriesavatar.jpg\" alt=\"sourstrawberriesavatar\" width=\"75\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/?cat=32\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4921\" title=\"debitopodcastthumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/11\/debitopodcastthumb.jpg\" alt=\"debitopodcastthumb\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nUPDATES ON TWITTER: arudoudebito<br \/>\nDEBITO.ORG PODCASTS on iTunes, subscribe free<\/p>\n<p>Hi Blog. Here are some comments from Japan Times readers regarding my August JUST BE CAUSE column, &#8220;The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Foreigner&#8221;, how difficult it seems to make long-term Japanese friends. Good stuff within, as well as the prerequisite hate mail. A friend commented that I&#8217;d probably still get hate mail if I posted a cure for cancer! \ud83d\ude42 Have a read. Arudou Debito<\/p>\n<p>\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/<\/p>\n<div id=\"date\"><strong>Tuesday, Sep. 13, 2011<\/strong><\/div>\n<p><strong>The Japan Times<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"columnname\"><strong>HAVE YOUR SAY<\/strong><\/div>\n<h1 id=\"headline\">The loneliness \u2014 or otherwise \u2014 of the long-distance foreigner<\/h1>\n<div id=\"mainbody\">\n<p><em>The Japan Times received a large number of readers&#8217; emails in response to Debito Arudou&#8217;s Just Be Cause column published Aug. 2, headlined &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/search.japantimes.co.jp\/cgi-bin\/fl20110802ad.html\">The loneliness of the long-distance foreigner<\/a>.&#8221; Here, belatedly, are a selection.<\/em><\/p>\n<table id=\"photoright\" width=\"350\" border=\"0\" align=\"right\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.japantimes.co.jp\/images\/photos2011\/fl20110913hsa.jpg\" alt=\"News photo\" width=\"350\" height=\"331\" border=\"0\" \/><\/em><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><em><strong>The elephant in the room<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This topic is something of a elephant in the room for most foreigners I know, including myself. The number of close Japanese friends we have between us is close to zero \u2014 and not for want of trying on our part!&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Rest at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/search.japantimes.co.jp\/cgi-bin\/fl20110913hs.html\">http:\/\/search.japantimes.co.jp\/cgi-bin\/fl20110913hs.html<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are some comments from Japan Times readers regarding my August JUST BE CAUSE column, &#8220;The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Foreigner&#8221;, how difficult it seems to make long-term Japanese friends. Good stuff within, as well as the prerequisite hate mail. A friend commented that I&#8217;d probably still get hate mail if I posted a cure for cancer! \ud83d\ude42 Have a read.  http:\/\/search.japantimes.co.jp\/cgi-bin\/fl20110913hs.html<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,22,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-academia","category-cultural-issue","category-immigration-assimilation"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9366"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9366\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9366"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9366"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debito.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9366"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}